Respect.

Thank those who do not respect you.They have given you freedom .You need not smile,please or talk to them .You can be natural and even frowning.You will be complete.

When people love and respect you, you are obliged to return their courtesies because you would not want to hurt them.But when they do not respect you they will not be hurt by your actions or words .So they set you free!

When you gain respect ,you often do at cost of freedom.Wisdom is to put freedom first and not bother with respect.

Where there is true love, genuine respect simply follows....

Thus says Sri Sri Ravishankar.