Monday, October 25, 2010

Co ed's


Sometime back my conversation with my niece drifted towards a discussion regarding, co eds versus same gender educational institutions.

She insisted that co ed's were much better.Less noisier .When she attended an all women institution for higher studies ,she was aghast by the full throated screeches, chuckles , yapping and all round gossipping. All at a high decibel!

Noisy ? I never saw it that way.I told her that I was very comfortable in the all girls school and college I had attended in my teens. [ once upon a time, long, long ago,I think I was a teenager too]. Naturally , since conversations in my childhood at home was dominated and steered by the gruff voices of my 4 brothers [ her father included] that centred chiefly and always around cricket,judo , karate,muscles , gym, boxing,Sivaji, MGR ,Devanand , Bharat- Manoj kumar,James bond and Dracula films.Tamizhvanan's Shankarlal, Kalki's Vandhiyathevan, Jim Corbett and Chase stories.Their own he- man exploits and girls!This was replicated with current supplants, -Gavaskar by Sachin, Amirthraj brothers and Bjorg by Paes and Federrer, Kamal andRajini,Amitabh and Aamir, wwf and formula car racing,Goundamani and Senthil comedy after marriage too ,being blessed only with sons.

The girls school I attended was the only place where my voice could be heard , even by myself.
In same gender institutions we need have no inhibitions regarding our dress, postures and looks.Give free vent to our thoughts, feelings without it being drowned by the loud voices of boys, or squirm at their stubborn opinions, scathing remarks and teasing.

My son who studied only in co -eds since nursery was also in tune with the opinion of my niece.He said " Ma your nanne nanne bachche" --' innocent tiny tot' would have turned into a first class rowdy had he studied in a all boys school.It was the presence of girls in their classes that had kept them[boys] in check.

I enjoyed the freedom and the pleasant companionship of my classmates and friends of my, girls only school to the hilt! My sympathies to kids of co eds , they have to be always, on guard.

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Guruji.


The way back to Delhi from Haridwar was one long bumpy ride. The acres upon acres of rolling rich green paddy fields and swaying sugarcane boughs on the road side , a treat to the eyes was the only silver lining to a painfully slow drive on non existent roads.

The sight of buffaloes ploughing fields or pulling carts was a ludicrous sight to one accustomed to seeing bullocks ploughing fields and huge white oxen's drawing heavily laden carts , down south.

As I came out of a tastefully landscaped hotel , after a brief lunch on the way side , to board my bus , I bumped into a big group of westerners in Indian kurta's and pants , heading towards a conference hall , in the hotel.

A tall woman,several years older than me ,at first look, with closely cropped hair and a forlorn look on her face smiled at me and stretched out her hands.She looked very sad . There was stark desperation on her face. I immediately gave her my hand.

She said "You are beautiful"[ Me ! at this age and after every thing?] And added "Most Indian women are. You are all always smiling and have such good teeth."


The tag around her neck had the smiling photo of Nithyananda.So did all others in that group. Most of the westerners who formed this group looked glum,weary of life and lost .Many of them had some disability or the other.

An young woman,an MBA from Mumbai a co pilgrimist , sniggered when this disparate group's leader , a young Indian, bearing a close resemblance to the guru ,a female clone ,explained wide eyed ,how the clouds stopped pouring and skies cleared magically when 'The master of the universe' landed at Delhi.

On my enquiry the old woman said that she was a German residing at New york.I paid back her compliment ,that I admired Europeans for their coloured eyes and golden hair [ages ago though]. She smiled back but it didn't touch her eyes.

Maybe she is rich but has none to share her thoughts and cares or worse even talk to. A lonely woman.Or is under going some terrible grief that requires gentle ministrations.I could empathise with her.If the Guru she is entrusting her faith can provide the required succor and pull her out of her dumps, so be it.

Every house in the villages, my bus passed through has a 'charpoy' the 4 legged threaded cot placed prominently at its front.Women clean grains seated on them, old men curl up resting their weary limbs or a bunch of lads crowd on them talking or staring into their mobiles. On some charpoy's lone men puff on their hookahs and on several, men sit in groups and are in deep discussions.Villagers in south sit or sleep on pyols[thinnai] or mud/cemented floors.

Even the pathetic dwellings of the poor , that has but four sticks for walls and a canvas or plastic sheet as a roof in outerlying areas of towns, have a charpoy within.

2500 kms separate Tamilnadu from Delhi, UP and Uttarakund.Yet the rag pickers in the streets in all urban centres down south or up north carry the same huge soiled white plastic bags over their shoulders.

Another common thread [ apart from cricket, railway's,IT and Bollywood] bridging the great North ---South divide?

Friday, October 15, 2010

Curtains.

An cheerful congregation of talented youth of the world , oozing confidence,health, vigour , good cheer and happiness has come to an end.

I felt elated when our youngsters snapped one gold medal after the other in quick succession.It has emboldened me to dream of Olympics at our doorsteps in near future.

The closing ceremony was how ever a dampener.A cacophony of sounds, asymmetrical dancing and long , long soliloquies ,marked by chest thumping ,trumpeting , backscratching and delving in local politics .

The saving grace was the martial dance forms , from various parts of India .

Monday, October 11, 2010

Haridwar.


The next day i.e Tuesday was sunny. But nature's fury had not let even an inch of the 300 kms long route unscathed . It is a monumental task to clear all those 100 's of kms of twisting mountainous roads with those handful of bulldozers and men. So swallowing our disappointment in not being able to have a darshan of Badri Narayan ,we turned back.My only consolation was that I had undertaken a padayatra of 6 -8 kms over rocks , raging streams and ankle deep mud to Purushotam Rama 's temple at the sangam of the rivers Alakananda and Bhagirathi . They flow as Ganga , there after.

As we neared Rishikesh I read the following board on the road side ,in one straight stretch of road where the Ganga runs somewhat parallel to for half a km or so ."Enjoy your drive along the marine drive".An Mumbaiker lyricist amongst the BRO ?

As we entered Haridwar I drew a sigh of relief . Back to the familiar straight lines of the plains I am so used to .Cycle rickshaws and horse carts [drawn by huge well fed horses], that have become museum pieces in and around Chennai are plying vigorously in here ! I saw them in some pockets of Delhi as well !Their presence proclaimed loudly that we are no more in the hills.

The people of Uttarakund often said " hum pahadi log yehipur kush hai .Magar Humbhe kabhi kabhi plains mey utharthe"---We, people of the hills are happy where we are .But at times even we descend down to the plains. One man who was held up at our transit camp the fauji dhabha , hailing from Srinagar , a town beyond Devaprayag , brightened on coming to know that I was from Chennai and fondly recalled that his son now a govt doctor had gone to coaching classess in a popular tutorial , which is actually near my house. A priest in a famous temple in Haridwar quizzed me about the distance Chennai was from Coimbatore , adding that his son was training in the CRPF training institute at Coimbatore. The Tamil nadu connection !

Groups of saffron clad men with kamandalams, long beards and long hair wound around their heads and wearing rudrakshas around their necks , wind their way up and down the streets .

The dip in the still raging ice cold waters in the morning with the sun shining above and its mild rays scattered like diamonds on the vast sheet of swirling waters , was spiritually uplifting .Nothing can compare with that moment .A feeling of light heartedness , that a life time of burdens and cares was dissolved, in an instant, in the waiting arms of motherGanges--Ganga maiyya.

On these very banks of Ganges in' Haridwar' which means 'gate way to god's abode' ,Sanat kumar, the eternal youth, the mind born son of Brahma had performed severe tapas and had attained great ascetic powers in ancient times!

Uttarakund ,the places I travelled through, seems to be at its inception of development. Probably that accounts for the lush greenery and thick forests. On the flip side education, employment and sanitation are at low levels. One very heartening fact is that there are no statues or busts of political leaders .Every intersection, in any place in Tamilnadu has either a bust or life size statues of political leaders like MGR,Ambedkar, Ghandhi, Nehru and so on as well as those of British viceroys!When I peered through the bus windows at the statues in Rishikesh and HAridwar at busy intersections , I was pleasantly surprised to see that they were of gods and religious symbols.My respect towards the deep spirituality of the people of Dev bhoomi as Uttrakund is also known as , increased by leaps and bounds.

The temples are not as splendid or numerous or ornately carved and decorated as those at Tamilnadu. But the gorgeous Ganga flowing near at hand , descending from pristine Gangotri glacier , carrying the fragrance of 100's of herbs in the path of her descent, the waters further sanctified by the pure thoughts of countless sages meditating on her banks at every point of time in our long history ,as well as the deep faith reposed in her generosity and bounty by millions of ordinary Bharatwasi's without a pause for 1000's of years , rivals and at times surpasses any other man made place of worship.

'Dev bhumi' viz 'Land of god's as people of Uttarakund ,fondly call their land , holds much water. A very sacred place indeed!



Friday, October 8, 2010

Greying?

I was under the impression that men had more grey cells than women.

My ramblings are providing the grist for some grizzled scribes to garble and to grind .

How greyish I am !

Monday, October 4, 2010

Fauji dhaba-----Devaprayag.


The Shivaliks [LesserHimalayas] are a thickly forested area with clusters of villages, few and far between. The local inhabitants are fair skinned with acquiline nose , slim,. hardy and vaguely remind me of our neighbours, the Nepalese.They have built cottages at unbelievable elevations, overlooking forests and terraced fields.

They are fiercely religious and are proud of their land that has been sanctified by sages down the ages . The chief among them being sage Vyasa who lived in these mountains and presented us with the great epic Mahabharat.Nearly every family has a member, serving in the armed forces!

We were forced to camp at Fauji dhaba ,run by a former soldier and his 5 sons , in a clearing between 2 lush hills , 4 kms before Devaprayag ,since the land slides creating blocks on the road leading to Devaprayag were yet to be cleared fully . They were too narrow for big vehicles to negotiate.

A small group of co- travellers decided to stretch our legs, drink in the scent of nature and also pay our obeisance to 'Mariyada purushotamSri Rama' at Raghunath temple in the confluence ,at Devaprayag.

The landslides were a dime a dozen! The roads often bisected by streams tearing down in great hurry.My leg sank in ankle depth of mud and slush whichI washed away in one of those streams and climbed on with constant roar of Ganges at the back of my ears.

As I trudged on I saw several huge trucks carrying gas cylinders, provisions , cement , hardware etc parked on road sides . The truckers were stranded there for a week and would proceed further on only when all roads were totally cleared of debris.A gigantic task.They had resigned themselves to a long wait.

One of the Fauji's son rueful observation came to my mind .That the natural calamity had taken them all back to primitive days. The electric lines had snapped, the mobiles did not work [ ours too didn't] ,so letters were passed up and down, as there was no refilling of gas they were cooking over log fire. No TV to watch and no news paper to read ! A total snap with the outside world!

As we took a dip in ice cold raging waters of the Sangam of rivers Alakananda and Bhagirathi , policemen in life jackets kept a stern watch as the waters had risen alarmingly over the weekend.After a steep climb to the darshan of Rama at Raghunath temple , I simply didn't have the strength to walk back the distance .

A youthful twosome in a small jeep --I suppose the local mode of transport, like our auto's agreed to take us back to our transit camp---Fauji dhaba.

They tore down the slippery roads in maddening speed ,expertly, negotiating each dangerous curve [ only half cleared]in the same speed !Our entreaties to slow down fell on deaf ears as Hindi film songs were streaming out from the jeeps Cd's in full volume.

The giddying heights, the thick forests, the eerie darkness that had quietly draped over, the slippery roads and narrow carriageways , the bouncing over stones strewn over fast flowing rivulets rushing on the roads, was all terribly alien to my life at plains and at the metropolis.But the Hindi film songs were familiar and it brought in some semblance of normality. It was comforting.

The high voltage mountain motor racing came to an end in a trice as they dropped us at our camp and readied for the next 'savari'!
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As dinner time drew near we were served with hot parathas dripping with ghee, potato's roasted tantalisingly red and tasty chole in thick gravy!Satiated by this mouth watering meal we sat on the deserted road whiling away our time in small talks , under dark skies , a pale moon and some insects trilling nearby. One of the owner,s son joined our circle and regaled us with with several local stories .The most gripping one being that of a man eating leopard!It had killed and eaten a boy last year and had attacked several persons in their homes, in a nearby village.The panicky villagers had raised a lot of ruckus and the forest officers were forced to trap it.

This educated young man[BA and plies his own jeep to Haridwar ], Shiva of the hills helped them to track it,. He pointed to a black and fluffy dog called Rooni,lying nearby ,saying it was used as a live bait to lure the leopard. Rooni had evaded the jaws of death by a mere whisker! It escaped only with a snip by the big cat, at its leg that has given it a permanent limp, since the FO shot and tranquilised it before the maneater could kill it.

Shiva proudly displayed that leopards claw , he was allowed to take as a reward for helping to track the animal after that big cat's post mortem by the officials .The leopard had died in the trapping process.Some old timers in our group, of pilgrims ,commented that he had spun a good yarn.Ididnot doubt the veracity of his narrative. Unmindful of their digs he continued his narration in all earnest and .
he addressed me and said ''Auntiji the leopards are in plenty, here. They often clamber over our roof and stare down at us in broad daylight and at several times, at night fight with my dogs''!

As it grew late , all men made their makeshift beds in the bus itself and we women were shown, with palms folded in supplication ,by a plump son of the Fauji ,in bermuda's,into a inner dank and dreary room in the dhabaa, with a line of hard beds to spend the night.The generator the only source of electricity was shut at 10 pm sharp .And all lights went off. It became pitch dark. Just then we heard a loud and piercing howl . It was that black dog Rooni He was probably reliving his close shave with the maneater.Its fear was infectious . The cold clammy hands of fear gripped, some. A little boy amidst us shrieked. The seniors who had cackled earlier were the first to switch on their torches and to double check the fastening of the flimsy latch.Was a leopard on the prowl?
to be contd...



Two events.

Two events have taken place back to back.

First , the verdict on Ayodhya.. On hearing it my throat constricted and my eyes welled up .

Second is the opening ceremony of CWG games.It was an overdose of colour and chaos.The centre piece a bloated sci -fi type space craft like ,balloon scarcely justifies its soaring price tag.

Was the showcasing of mechanics and push cart vendors ,to do a one up on international reporting' that we are no longer a country of snake charmers but are in the next leg of development?In metro's like Chennai the 'puncture wallaha's' have become extinct, though.

An highlight was the spontaneous ,rousing cheer accorded to Abdul Kalam by all the spectators.

The most touching moment was the simple drawing of Bapu and the soulful rendition of Vaishnava janato.

The dancers were a delight, so were the percussionists as well as the complicated yogasans displayed.

I would have preferred the games being inaugurated with the peace mantra from Katho upanishad

' OmSahana bhavantu. SuhanaoBhunaktu'

Sahaveeryam karvaa vahai'

Tejaswee naava dheeta maslu ma vidvishaa vahai

Om shanti, shanti , shanti.

May he protect and nourish us. May we excel in all fields.Let us not argue with each other.

Peace , peace , peace!